By: Robelyn M. Yambao
The feeling of Having Crush
Having crush gives inspiration to us and having crush starts when you are too young when you can't explain what it is and when you thought it is love what you are experiencing because you don't know what love is, yet.
What is the feelings inside when you have a crush?
Ana, experienced having crush when she was in elementary. She has big admiration with her boy classmate who is very cute and handsome. Everytime she saw him she felt happy. Her heart seems jumping inside and her adrenaline seems so high that she can do anything. Because of her crush she has this inspiration to study hard and show off her ability or talent in front of the class. Her self-confidence became high enough to prove that she is a wonderful girl and worthy of her crush attention.
Bea, on the other hand, experienced having her first crush when she was in High School. She was so shy and her self-confidence became low because she doesn't like to let others know her feelings towards her crush because for her it is a very shameful act to let the guy know her feelings. She looked at her crush when he was not looking at her and when caught by him staring too long, she changed her eyes direction and her face blushed automatically. When her classmates found out who her crush was, she started to cry out of shame.
Cath has a crush in college that gives her inspiration but not in good ways. She became obsessed of the guy that gives her feelings of greediness. She became imaginative where she imagined that her crush was her boyfriend. She became jealous whenever the guy has girls around him. She became distracted because of him, she did not give attention and focus to her assignments and projects in school. In this case, she got failing grades. She became emotional, depressed or moody, and hurt inside because of jealousy.
Those are the three examples of people who experienced having a crush in school. Mostly, we experience romantic excitement whenever we have a crush. This is the feeling we want to experience and never wanted to vanish forever. But, that feeling is only for the meantime, at the beginning in most cases, it won't last longer for sure not forever. It is good to have a crush for inspiration not for failure. And never consider your emotion as love because it is an infatuation only. Make sure you know yourself better, if you can't handle your emotion, you will need advice from love expert or meet elders to seek advices about their experiences.
How about you? How do you feel and how you behave when you have a crush?
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