by: Robelyn M. Yambao
Hi guys, it's been awhile since I posted in my page Family, Love and Relationship. My apology for that but today I have good news for all of you. I know that in the social media, a lot of people are posting messages that forever is impossible to happen. We even had a movie entitled "walang forever" last December 25, 2015. Well, I can say that there is still hope and that quote is not true.
Today, I am going to tell you how to handle relationship and what are the secret to achieve that in order to reach your dream of having a forever relationship. In my past relationships, I always say that I am not lucky with my lovelife because I always end up with the wrong guy. There was a time that I really decided to be single forever after experiencing heart broken. But, I was young then. I did not know how to handle relationship, how to know the real and true person loving me, and how to know if he is the right one for me. This secret that I am going to share is not only for women but also applicable with guys. If you are ready to know what my secret is to solve your aching emotion about "walang forever" and give you hope to believe in happy ending, just keep reading!!!
I Observed My Behavior
As I looked back in my past relationships, I can say I gave my best to make my man happy. Everything I did for him was the same as what you did! Every relationship does the same mistakes and does good things. Actually, no one is to be blamed when a relationship has ended in a sad or happy closure. But, one thing my partner is always saying "I have an attitude". That's what I observed, I have a short temper and very emotional.
What do Women Want in a Man?
I've experienced having relationship with a guy younger than me, with same age with me and older than me in my past relationships. So, I know exactly the differences of those guys. Let me tell you the different guys' behavior in a relationship and what are the most hated by women from them.
Number 1 that woman hates is her man lying to her. This is the number one problem. He lied being no other woman, he lied being not married, he lied being no vices, etc. Meaning, man is a natural born liar, hahaha, don't get me wrong I'm just kidding. What I mean is, man is lying because of different reasons. There are good and stupid reasons. But, before we judge them, we need to know as a woman the root cause of their behavior. Why is he a liar? Do you wanna know what the answer is? I will tell you later. Let me continue first what are the other behavior that women hate from his man.
The second is being lazy. He wants to earn but in a very easy and quick way. So, other guys do illegal jobs. Worst case scenario, he has no plan for his future aside from relying with his parents he prefers to sleep and eat at home and not working. I can say only few men are hard working and good as we all know they are obviously married now because they are responsible, they are doing the right thing.
The third and other problems of women from his man are being womanizer, numb, player, gambler, gamer, etc. Whatever you wanna call him or accuse him, name it here! Now, if a woman couldn't handle him, she will be miserable in the entire relationship. She will cry a bucket and hoping she can change him to become a better person. That's wrong. I am telling you, you can not change a person. And he can't either, hard for him to do what you want. Like for instance an addict person if he withdraws from his drugs all of a sudden he will become sick. or worst will die but that won't happen of course I'm just being exaggerated. Now, since I said that you can't change him, I can tell you who and what can change him! Viceversa with women if a guy is reading this. Just be patient because I will reveal to you my secret after I finish explaining everything and after I'm done sharing some important information on the problems you are facing and I am sharing tips for you to be aware of what's going on.
So, women want their man to be what they want! It's hard to happen, frustrating!
What do Guys Want in a Woman?
Women are created to please the guys. Hmmm, maybe not the good term to describe that. Let us say to make a man happy in his life, to be inspired to do his mission here on Earth and to have a good companion for the rest of his life. Besides, being alone is sad. But, a lot of single women and single men are already happy and contented to be alone so I don't generalize that statement. I am refering this to those who are aiming to have partner forever.
Okay, now I'm gonna tell you what is the number one behavior that guy hates with his woman. Attitude!
Yes, having an attitude. Those who have boyfriends right now, you may ask them about it. I am telling you the truth, it's true. Our temper as a woman is really short. We easily get irritated and emotional. Well, to let the guys know why? This is the only way we can release our sadness, anger, disappointment in whatever causes us to show our attitude. Guys always say I still love you even you have attitude. But, deep inside they hate it. They hate arguments, fighting, nagging, etc. I also hate it as a woman, fighting is not fun. It's tiring! But we couldn't avoid it besides it spiced up our relationship, isn't? But, don't worry. I have a solution for that as what I have mentioned earlier I have a secret.
In summary, guys want his woman to have no attitude, a good cook and passionate to him.
Your Solution is Not the Solution: The Secret Revealed
Women and men' wants with their partners are impossible to achieve. Only blessed couples are successful with their partners in life, and only few can confidently say there is forever! But, how did they do that?
It's time for me to reveal my secret. Everything we do is God's will. Not our will... The solution of our problem is PRAYER! So don't make things happen according to your will. You should pray for it!
Yes, you read it right! The most powerful weapon in this world.
Now that I shared with you my secret, I am hoping that you will believe in forever like what our Father said we have eternal life if we believe in Him.
In my next post, I will show to you how I use prayer as my weapon to have a successful relationship. Believe me or not, it happened like a magic. It was so incredible to receive a result like that. I have many things to share with you so please keep following my post.
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A licensed teacher in the Philippines who shifted her career into another direction to follow her passion to be a blogger and a YouTuber. Her blogs are related in traveling and simple passions like giving advises, referrals and tutorials.
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